Tuesday, 16 July 2013
What Happens When Your Dog Dies
Hi! When my dog Seymour passed away suddenly last November, it marked the end of a chapter in my life. I didn't expect that, but that's what happened.
Poor old Seymour suddenly seemed to be going downhill, so a visit to the vet confirmed he had cancer in his spleen. That was Saturday. By Monday night he was unable to get to his feet on his own, and so Tuesday morning we had to put him to sleep. Hard stuff, he was my best buddy.
And that was it - after the fog of grief lifted a bit, I knew I needed change - big change.
I am 54 years old, and have had in the back of my mind that I would "retire" at 55 for a number of years, but it's complicated on a number of levels.
My husband, life-partner, lover, friend, occasional enemy (or person I find really really irritating), soulmate and business-partner Chuck (Chuckles) and I own a small manufacturing business which we both work at. He's not quite at the retirement age or phase yet, so part of the challenge has been working out how I can slow down a bit while he keeps on working. He likes having me around, we work well together, and our customers like "us" as a package deal. For those reasons, hiring a replacement has never seemed practical.
We have dreamed of a larger property often, pouring over the property listings online and fantasizing about the life we would have with space for all Chuck's toys and projects (he's a toy and project guy) and the huge garden we could have (I love gardening) and the outdoor space and privacy we could enjoy (we both are outdoorsy and like our personal space!).
So, in May, we bought 5 acres in the country, near where I grew up, about an hour away from Vancouver, BC where we live now, and we are going to renovate the barn, move our business there, and work from home! I will still be involved, but won't be locked into the 8-10 hours a day just at work, I can be out in the garden, or playing with my new dog (yes! That's part of the plan!) with my iphone on my belt and can take calls, do the books on rainy days and in general devote more time to my own interests.
One of the things I have always loved is writing, so I thought I'd start a blog about the experience of moving from a big city back to the country after 30 odd years (back for me, Chuckles has always lived in the city). So here goes....